Join Dan and Stephanie Burke for an unforgettable weekend of encounter, renewal, and deeper union — with God and with each other.
Discover how to develop and grow in real intimacy with your spouse during this three-day, all-inclusive retreat at the Copthorne Hotel, Palmerston North.
This retreat is for married couples seeking to encounter God and grow closer to each other as one in Christ. Dan and Stephanie will delve into the unique roles of a husband and wife in the unity of marriage as they share their story of “Fighting Towards Each Other” — walking with you in discovering how incredibly powerful marriage is in your journey towards an ever-deepening relationship with God.
During this powerful weekend, you’ll learn how to more fully appreciate the spiritual strength that your marriage offers you and your spouse, and how to continue walking with each other toward the joyful life that God desires for you.
“Our marriage was good before — now it’s even better!”

Dan Burke has written numerous books on Catholic mystical tradition and is the Founder of the Avila Institute, which provides spiritual formation for priests, religious, and laity in more than 90 countries, and priestly formation around the world. He is also the founder of the worldwide Catholic community of Apostoli Viae.

Stephanie Burke is an international speaker, retreat master, spiritual director, and head of the Catholic Community of Apostoli Viae’s healing apostolate. She is also the co-author of an upcoming book entitled Divine Intimacy in Marriage.
Co-sponsored by EWTN and SpiritualDirection.com, Divine Intimacy Radio illuminates the path to union with God through the wisdom of the saints and the teachings of the Catholic Church.
Each week Dan and Stephanie Burke explore marriage, prayer, meditation, contemplation, and Catholic teaching — drawing couples into a deeper encounter with Christ and with one another.
Over 180 episodes available on Spotify, YouTube, and Apple Podcasts.
Listen on EWTNJust one ticket per couple. Your registration covers both of you for the full retreat, including accommodation and all meals.
Everything. Your registration covers all retreat sessions with Dan and Stephanie Burke, accommodation on Friday and Saturday nights at the Copthorne Hotel, and all meals throughout the weekend. You arrive, and the rest is taken care of.
This retreat is designed to give couples the rare gift of focused time together, away from the usual demands of family life. We want you to be fully present — to each other and to God. For this reason, we ask that children do not attend, with the exception of nursing babies in arms.
Absolutely. This retreat is for any married couple who wants to grow in love and draw closer to God together. Your spouse is warmly welcome, whatever their faith background.
Yes. A small number of assisted places are available through the generosity of couples who have registered at our Generosity Rate. If cost is a barrier, please reach out to us at mission@pndiocese.org.nz — all enquiries are handled with warmth and complete discretion.
The retreat is held at the Copthorne Hotel, Palmerston North, New Zealand.
Registration opens at 8:00 AM on Friday 22 January, with sessions beginning at 9:00 AM. The retreat concludes at 12:30 PM on Sunday 24 January. If you are travelling from out of town, we strongly encourage arriving on Thursday evening.
Have a question about the retreat, or would you like to know more before registering? We’d love to hear from you.
If the cost of attending is a barrier, please don’t hesitate to reach out — a small number of assisted places are available through the generosity of other couples. All enquiries are handled with warmth and complete discretion.